Fewer friends:
It is often said that when you internalize your dream, the subconscious gradually act consistently with your dream regardless of your status at the point in time. This consistency in your behavior is noticed by people around you. Mere having a dream and internalizing it make you stand out. Developing a dream is the beginning of transformational process of human recreation. So people that can live with your transforming personality and in tune with your dream tend to remain your friends. Others who cannot tolerate your dream simply walk away. When a life and its purpose is defined, great chance are that you will loose good number of your friends. This is a phenomenon which I call ‘Waves of purposeful life’ having a dream makes you stand out; pursuing your dream make you unique. On lookers don’t see you as an out stander in the making. They simply see you as odd because you stand out. So they tend to avoid you because of this singular fact. Never mind such neglect won’t last for long. I find expression for why friends depart from you stated in my book titled ‘Diary of Reflections’. You will loose irrelevant friends and gain those important to your dream. Those relevant to your dream will be few. Some friends depart from you because you alone see your dream in the light of today; others recognize it when it becomes a reality.
Great resilience: often times in life, we seek courage from friends and close relatives; searching their faces and conscience for encouragement they mostly cannot give. Little do we realize that a man cannot give what he doesn’t have. So you will eventually learn that a many of the people you look up to for courage to do what you do cannot give you or don’t want to give you. Internalizing your dream make you resilient in life it will shot your mind against negative external influences from the environment. Even when everyone around you doesn’t support your dream, your drive born out of resilience will help you surpass their imaginations. I have seen the world through. It is filled with derelicts of terrified individuals who would never see beyond their nose. These people are too scared to venture into the unknown. The same fear that have sunk many into oblivion. When you are totally convinced of the workability of your dream, you won’t need external drive to spur you. Your charisma will burn like a fury flame. If you don’t build your resilient, the world will convince you why your dream will not work and why you must be like others.
Determination: is the courage that drives your will. It is born out of conviction in your dream and personality. This is a great quality of achievers. Determination is the indomitable will that energizes zeal. Yet fir its total functionality, it requires courage built from resilience and tenacity.
Tenacity: there is a thin line between stupid stubbornness and tenacity. You must know the difference between the two because the former leads to destruction while the later lead to success. To achieve your dream in life, you don’t have to be stubborn or rude; you only have to tenaciously forge ahead.
Faith: believe in your dream and don’t wait for another to tell you it works. Faith is a ritual of believe that cannot be owned without practice. You must believe in yourself and the supernatural taking the belief sequence exactly in the stated order. God needs your faith to work wonders.
Self realization: is that point in one’s life when purpose is understood. It is the stage where self content overrule our actions. Understanding your life purpose simply brings a new consciousness into your own existence. Pursuing such purpose brings most desired satisfaction to the soul. You must therefore seek to understand everything about yourself because true self knowledge is the soul of happiness and success. The brevity of happiness in riches consoles many of us. Rather than seek true happiness that last in self realization, we continuously look for relief where none lies.
Goal setting: brevity of human life shows that we don’t have luxury of time. It is of great essence to make use of the little we’ve got by developing concise plan spelt out in defined goals. If a man set out on a journey without knowing where he is going, he should expect to find himself anywhere. After self realization, goal setting help define your course as well as your destination. When you find yourself at the wrong location, you will surely know because you already know where you want to be.
Time management: refers to prudence of time use. We find ourselves plunging into activities that waste judicious time. Imagine that someone spend his twenty-four hours everyday like this: Sleep- 8 hours, watching TV- 6 hours, work or school- 8 hours, other activities (cooking, hanging out)- 2 hours. You can as well score yourself putting the hours you spend on your daily routines. As tight as each day schedule might be, there is the need for you to do everyday the singular thing that develop your life purpose. I have been doing mine for more than eight years now. I can tell you it has been awesome.
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